Finding Joy In Everyday Moments

In a world that glorifies hustle, achievement, and constant busyness… it’s easy to overlook the simple, sacred moments woven into our daily lives. But, there’s an art to embracing the ordinary. Where slowing down allows us to notice the beauty in what might otherwise seem mundane.

It’s in the warmth of morning sunlight streaming through the kitchen window.
The gentle rhythm of making a meal while little hands play nearby.
The quiet pause after bedtime prayers, where peace lingers for a moment longer and our babies grow up right before our eyes.

When we stop striving and start noticing, we realize that these small, unassuming moments are where life happens. They are the brushstrokes that paint the masterpiece of our days - offering us a chance to savor joy, connection, and grace.

A quote from one of my favorite books, The Lifegiving Home, comes to mind as I sit with this topic and enjoy a hot cup of coffee. “The understanding of beauty, not as a veneer that we apply to the surface of our lives, or an ideal only to be obtained by the extraordinary..but as the tangible, daily outgrowth of spiritual values that we hold most deeply. We miss that God created the physical world to house and express the spiritual.” Such an interesting perspective, right?

We live in a society where beauty is often seen as synonymous with perfection. Whether that’s in terms of looks, pinterest-worthy homes, or even the mirroring of someone else’s life or schedule. We are pushed to want to change ourselves, consume as much as we can with instant gratification, get “the next best thing”, and never feel fullfilled with what we have.

Can you imagine a life that lonely? One where what you have is never good enough, you are constantly pulled in the direction to change your actual unique essence, and you are moving so quickly to keep up with everyone else (or the expectations that you put on yourself, wink wink) that you miss the joy of what actually matters?

I often think of this in terms of how our children will view and experience the world. Are we setting them up to live a life filled with intention? Are we creating an environment that allows them to have the capacity to actually be able to slow down and find joy in the everyday moments? Are we, ourselves, mirroring to them the beauty of the world and the excitement of each and every day that we get here on this Earth?

This is your invitation to really dive into this yourself. No matter what season of life you are in, it matters.

Ask yourself..

Am I actually able to slow down and find joy and beauty in the everyday moments? If not, why? If so, what is working for you and allowing you to do that. Acknowledging what is working can be just as important as finding what isn’t!

How am I viewing myself? Am I viewing myself and my life through a lens that isn’t mine? (ex. someone else’s opinion, where someone else is in their life, social media, etc.)

Am I constantly “consuming?” Have you ever thought that maybe you are missing the joy of the little things because they are being drowned out by the noise of EVERYTHING else? This applies to what you read, listen to(podcasts and audiobooks included), watch, and who you are around.. take some time to completely turn off without consuming more and more and more. This is an intentional choice that needs to be made.

Am I creating an environment that supports my nervous system? This is one of the most underrated questions in my opinion. There is power in a PEACEFUL home. Is your home inviting? Comforting? A place where you and your family members find peace? If not, it’s time to stop making excuses and make some change. But, this doesn’t mean you have to go out and buy new or expensive things. Start with decluttering an area that brings you stress and adding in some dollar store string lights - you won’t regret it!

Are you making time for things that actually bring you joy? This is not your job, even if you enjoy it. This is not cleaning the house because you feel better when the house is clean. And no, this is not working out, even if you love to do so. This is something that actually recharges your battery. Maybe a call with a friend, reading your favorite book, joining a group to make more connections, or starting the hobby that you have always wanted to do.

Each one of these questions allow you to dig deeper into what you are ACTUALLY making time for in your life. This will shape how you view the world, and how those around you do, too.

Girl, remember, you don’t have to chase a fast-paced life to create one filled with meaning. When we learn to cherish the art of the ordinary, we discover that life’s richest blessings are often found in the moments we once rushed past.